Fanatik. Apa itu fanatik? Entah. Aku pun tak tau.
Semenjak duamenjak ni, ada la sorang friend aku kat Facebook. Dia actually senior aku. Perempuan. Tapi minat gila Manchester United. Profile picture taruk gambar player Man Utd, status pun kebanyakannya pasal Man Utd. Hadoi makk. Kok kalau ye pun minat, cukup sekadar MINAT, jangan TERLALU FANATIK. Ini sampai request 'in a relationship' with Javier Hernandez tu, kejadahnye? Biasa-biasa sudah la kan.
Ceh aku cakap orang, tapi aku? Well aku pun fanatik, tapi tak la sampai pagi petang siang malam taruk status pasal Arsenal. Rilek sudah. Get a life. Banyak lagi yang perlu kita ambik kisah selain bola, yang patut kita ambik kisah, yang wajib kita ambik kisah.
Bila menang, bangga gila. Post kat Twitter, Facebook. Yakin Man Utd bolot semua trofi. Bila kalah, emo. Bila kena ejek, emo semacam. Menangis siap. Rilek laa. Itu semua mainan dunia semata-mata.
Bukan nak membenci, tapi nak mengingatkan.
Kalau awak terbaca post saya ni, jangan terasa pulak. Cuma, awak tu perempuan. So...bukan kata tak boleh nak fanatik sangat dengan bola ni. Boleh, tapi ada hadnya. Cukuplah sekadar minat, jangan terlalu fanatik. First time saya jumpa orang perempuan macam awak. Sangat fanatik. Please....get a life.
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oke... dah terbaca ur entry abt me... there's a reason for this thing... i started to love football and MU since i was 13.. my life is all abt football n MU at that time.. i bought alot of magazines abt football.. i collects poster, newspaper and everything abt MU... then there comes a guy... when i was 17.. we fall in love... n i stop giving full concentration on MU n football... sbb nye? sbb that guy... die xsuka bola, n die xsuka sy terlalu fanatik pasal bola... fine... i changed! but now,.... after we break off... i guess i really need 'something' that can avoid me from thinking abt him or something that i can give focus so that i will not let my tears drop when thinking abt him... n its football n MU... thats it... cm menyibukkan diri utk sesuatu perkara supaya xberfikir utk perkara yg len... sbb tu i let myself to be fanatic pasal MU... sbb tu je yg boleh hilangkan stress n xpikir pasal kejadian sedey... now u know.. then its up to u nk pikir sama ada cara sy meminati MU tu menjelikkan ataupun tidak... sekian
Being a football fanatic isn't a crime. I didn't say that. But, you have limits. Just take football as a side entertainment, don't be too fanatic. I'm an Arsenal fan since I was 12. I follow their flows, I follow their legendary runs, I follow their glories. But now I follow their flaws.
About your case, if you take football as a reason to forget him, there's also a limit. You are a woman. You have pride, you have your value. Everybody has their own perception, but for me, a suicide-hard-fan girl (I use suicide instead of die because I think suicide is more extreme than die) is somehow.....unpromising. You can, but you have to control yourself. There are many things you can do to forget him. Many things. It's just you couldn't find it.
Don't cry because of football. Don't cry because your team lose. Brings nothing to you.
I didn't feel like you annoys me. But try to think about the other men around you. What they've been thinking?? Unless you are keeping a 'why bother me?' attitude, I can't say much.
I have many girl-friends (not to be confused with girlfriends), but you are the one who I found soooo obsessed with football (particularly Man Utd). Relax. They are just football. Football. When you die, you don't bring them.
My point is, being fanatic isn't wrong, but you have to set your limit. I know it's hard for you to accept it (about your previous), but somehow you have to accept it. Find another way. 50:50. Football, and something. Balance it. You can do it.
I will not post this if you are a boy/man. Note that.
anyway.. thanx for the nasihat... sy akan cuba mengurangkan ke'fanatik'an itu.. kalau boleh la... LOL
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